When I had attended Tausiyah Aa' Gym at Sabilillah Mosque in Malang, East Java, on Sunday, 22 January 2012, many lessons I obtained, for example We have 6 negative diseases of conscience, what it is, what its characteristics is, and how to oppose it. Interesting, but it is difficult to implement in our daily life. The 6 Negative diseases are arrogant, egoist, tacky, fierce,envious, and crafty.
Someone who has arrogant character always feels better than others. Its attribute shows the characteristics about deceiving of the truth and underestimating the other. It is worse, cause nobodies perfect in this world. Then, to overcome this character, people should not be arrogant persons and appreciate with the other. For example, The barber man.. do not underestimate the barberman, since everybody always bow, when he cuts his hairs including the president.
The next character is egoist. Generaly, egoist is analogous with stubborn person. They though that everything they do is the right thing,other people are wrong. For example, smoker never realize if what they do can cause drawback to other people. They should intake their head when they are smoking. It will be better to the other, because other person did not inhale the toxin of cigarete and the smoker can feel the smoke by theirself (LOL..:D..)
Furthermore, tacky or riya' is a bad character. He should not show off about transcendence that he has. How to cure it? Yes.. we should always be grateful to God for everything given to us. Allah can open our disgrace easily, but it did not happen to us. This is because Allah love us.
Moreover fierce is the drawback character. No bodies like the fierce person. We should distingush between fierce and assertive. Fierce means someone cannot control the emotion (angry) to others. On the other hands, asertive is a good to ask someone to do the best thing. Tawadhu and humble are the way to overcome the such character. Otherwise, person who has fierce characteristic should accept every critic from the other person pasionly, it is for the goodness too.
The next character is envy. Envy is attitude that is always happy when other sad or sad when the other happy..
And the last one is crafty. This kind is similar with dishonest. That's all of the bad characteristic.. wow.. simple but hard to implement in our daily life. Human being.. normal.. this is due to human desire.
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