Happiness Secret

I have just thought about three words to reach the happiness in our daily life - sincerity, patience, humbleness and wise. Such my brother said in javanese language "Dadi wong iku sing sabar, nrimo, lan ikhlas" (Person should have patience, surrender to destiny, and sincerity).

Furthermore, the last lesson that I know is Andhap Ashor (humbleness). Off course I totally agree with him.  I know my brother is younger than me. But he is totally wiser. I am proud of him (Thanks to My Brother.. Bens).

Oke..Lets talk about the three points above. Firstly, sincerity is a type that someone does something without hoping praise and payback. Allah SWT. says sincerity is a secret from My secret which is placed at deep inside the heart of My beloved servants (H.R. Al-Qazwini). Human beings who have sincerity realize that people just have had incumbency to complete an intent and an effort. For example, a mother gives a breast feeding without hoping payback from her baby. She only wants  to raise her baby to growth, health, and cleverness.

The second point is patience. The patience is a process to learn and learn. The patience reffers to hold something, such as desire, emotional, expression, sickness and statement.  Why I said the patience is a process to learn? Everybody who wants to be success should be patience. For instance, a baby, when he wants to walk, he should learns to move and walk, he needs a time until he can do it by himself. So, it is also for the sicknessman, he should be patient to face the sickness. If he can overcome the sickness, it will fell easier.

The last point is humbleness. It means there are no arrogant and stubborn, whether he is praised or humiliated. When he is praised, he is not arrogant. Otherwise, if he is humiliated he is not annoyed. Like what  I said to my students, “ You should create the humiliation to be a motivation to you. It can be your mirror to improve your self”.

Finally, all those things bring us to the main point that sincerity, patience, humbleness, and also sacrifice are able to create a LOVE. The power of all good things to do. With love, there will be no more doubt and sickness. With love you will be surrounded by peace. Love has its own power. Love always makes life to be more living. Say LOVE...and PEACE.... J

(Aknowledgement : thanks Mr. “O” to revise my English Writing and smooth touching at the end of this essay..)